Benda yg lepas usah dikenang...

Continuation part 2..part 1 refer here

New to workplace
.....and at the same time super busy with wedding preps?
Usually new staff will have more lepaks time ~ browsing manual, documentation, knowing more about jobs and sometimes not really have a work..but maybe at the same time you want to be look like busy? So here the tips

1. Have a specific pendrive saving all about ur wedding plan
2. Have a wedding plan in excel format..so while busy with konon2 buat kerja you can update ur wedding plan as well ~very useful if ur work mmg bnyk guna excel..leh selit2
3. You might have time to browse internet and find out wedding things and maybe you love the ideas…straight away save it to your pendrive…~ huhu the most tough is to name it since maybe in future you’ll need to refer the website back…
4. Have as many folders as you want but be specific eg gambar bilik pengantin, gambar baju, gambar deco hantaran ~ since for easy reference...

....not sure to invite or not
Sometimes u r still new and might not knew everyone...my advice just invite ur officemate ~ of course x mengharap diorg dtg since mereka juga belum mengenali anda...

Who knows even though they not come, but they are happy with ur big day and even giving u special wedding present ~ Alhamdulillah, my case..sy dapat sejumlah voucher that really good since end up I use it to buy fully-automatic washine machine which cost me only RM100++


Over excited
Yes of course u’ll over excited to get married..esp if u have been in relationship bf-gf for few years...and there is tendency of want to have marvellous wedding...and bear in mind nothing is free...u must consider $$$...because more $$$ will be spend after married...let have some example

Planning to buy house ~ at least RM10k in hand..deposit+lawyer fees+gedebak gedebuk...but later maybe the amount can be “reimbursed” via withdrawal with kwsp-kira anda kena guna duit sdiri dl..sila amik perhatian klu nk kuar bersama pasangan kenala dh kawen!

Even if u dun buy, of course thinking to rent..xkan xde deposit kan?
Then of course u want ur home have “something”...
Set bilik tidur...RM500++ ~ promo cavenzi and so on
Ruang tamu...L shape sofa... TV ..depends mampu tv pe...paling2 sume RM 500++...
Mesin basuh, peti ais...kurang2 dalam RM1k
Benda2 yg xkurang penting...dapur, alatan2 dapur, langsir..gedebak-gedebuk RM1000-3000+
Total kasar paling2 tidak RM5k and above (itu jika anda tidak beli rumah...) dh kena sedia...~unless anda tinggal bersama2 family or family-in-law..then kurang sket

So planning on spending + saving is in your hand...and of course shopping kawen pun berpada2, jangan terlebih banyak or terikut2 style individu lain ~ espy g kita tgk kt majalah tu grand2, of coursela mereka mgkn anak somebody, or kawen ngan somebody/ anak somebody..blhla bergrand2 kan?


Undangan oh undangan
You are happily invite all ur friends to come to ur wedding
You are happily to prepare VIP gifts for them

But end up
...they never call/ sms ...silent and remain silent
...they sms/ email...congratulate u and inform that they were not able to come
...they sms/email...congratulate u and inform with reason that they not able to come

Whatever it is I believe that as a bride, of course u’ll really sad...u might have give them nice invitation card plus prepared the nice VIP gifts....but this is what you get

Whatever it is ayah saya kata jawab begini “ May God bless u”

~sometimes maybe in past u’ve tried to attend all ur friends wedding, but please don’t expect them to come when it comes to ur wedding since maybe they are busy with all their big families, kids, and so on

I dun mean to be harsh in this topic....but pls estimate buatla kebarangkalian yg kawan2 anda tidak akan muncul ~ esp if ur wedding take 2-4 hours of travelling....but pls dun be very sad since I believe that sometimes org yang tidak disangka2 akan dtg....:)


Henna
Pls wear it early otherwise afraid that the colour do not turn red...if you solemnisation on Saturday try to wear it on Thursday


Hair
Kindly remind ur husband to be not to have hair cutting a day before the big day...try to have it at least 1-2 weeks before...at least it is look fresh and neat...~bknle rupa mcm otg br keluar kedai gunting rambut

For girls, even u wear tudung sila simpan sikit rambut anda...at least the hair will help when put tiara, crown, or what so ever..since it still needs to be pin...


Dirisik sudah, bertunang sudah....tetapi tiada tarikh hari lansung
I know sometimes it is hard to set the date...because our family will try to gather as many relatives as can plus trying not to clash with others ~ dgn kerja2 kawen, kenduri saudara mara dan juga jiran tetangga

When there is no exact date, means it is hard to book anything ~ tok kadi, catering, mak andam, photog..

But I know there’s yg sudah ada tarikh, but tidak juga bersiap ape2.....:P

I have the same situation here...my family only confirm somewhere around November last year for the date ~ of course before that we have several date for big day since our engagement...cuti sekolah bulan 12, 3,5....

So the thing that we can do only have budget+planning and surveying for several thing ~ but to be frank survey2 itu tidaklah begitu details since clash with timbunan kerja dan juga sesi perpindahan tempat kerja...all in the same time....besides i’m really depending on google2 di alam maya..itu pun limited di ofis dan sesi2 wifi kfc,mcd,mamak....

So we try to divide doing the things...and considering both of us xberkisah andai barang hantaran itu bknla up-to-date...so start with planning and shopping for hantaran, and even tempah baju nikah ~ sila2lah hantar awal supaya sempat untk sebrg alteration (if any)

Also trying to get quotation...

After the date is confirm

straight away book the things...~but still have to back up the plan since musim2 cuti sekolah adalah musim kahwin...

berusahala bersungguh2 menyiapkan segala rancangan dgn masa yg ada ~ huhu klu limited masanya haruslah stay up and try to have better time management....

Selamat membuat persediaan fizikal & mental untk bakal2 pengantin di luar sana